How To Text Girls For Newbies: Attract Women and Get Them Out on A Date (Ultimate Texting Guide For Men Book 1) by Manaye Abenezer

Author:Manaye, Abenezer [Manaye, Abenezer]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3, pdf
Published: 2021-04-23T16:00:00+00:00

Chapter Eleven: The Social Bank Account

Social capital, or the social bank account, as a lot of people like to call it, is literally everything in text. This concept is everywhere. Anything and everything you do; it all relates back.

So what I'm going to do right now is briefly go through exactly what it is, how it works, how you build social capital, why you need to build social capital, and how you can use social capital. And I am going to give you that right now, and then I'm going to keep harping back on this in every single topic to come later. So learn this lesson well. It's super, super, supercritical.

So what is social capital? The idea is, you essentially have a social bank account with every human being on the planet, even if you've never met them. So a random stranger, badly dressed, comes up on the street asking for money. Most people are very uncomfortable there; they have a very negative response, so they don't want to give that person money. If your good friend you've known for years came up to you and asked you for money, you'd be very willing, in most cases, to give him money, as long as it's a reasonable amount. But what's the difference?

The difference is, with your friend you've known for years, you have this extended positive history. You have a long history of you doing good things for him; he doing good things for you, you've known each other, you have commonalities and good emotions. Also, quite possibly, when you've done things for him in the past, he's responded by paying you back, or he's responded by doing something for you. So you feel like in the future going forward, there's a lot of implied positivity there as well.

With a stranger, how do you feel? This guy has done nothing for me; I don't know him; the first thing he does is ask for something from me. And when people ask for things from you, that makes you uncomfortable. So your entire experience with him is he's asking for something that's making you uncomfortable. Your expectation is, if you're friends with this person or continue interacting with this person, he's going to constantly continue making you uncomfortable and asking for things from you. There's no way you want to participate in that kind of relationship. It’s the same thing when you meet a girl. If you meet a girl, and you're constantly saying, “Hey, do this for me,” “Hey, do that for me,” “Hey, send me a naked picture,” “Hey, let's get together for a date at this date at this time.” Asking, asking, asking, begging. The girl is like, “Eww. This guy, all he wants is something from me. He just wants to get in my pants. He's not offering anything. He’s not making it fun. He’s not bringing any value.” And the girl’s going to go silent very quickly.

On the other hand, if you’re interacting with the

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